Valentine’s Day ~ Time for a Love Revival

Years ago, I saw a commercial promoting a huge stuffed bear as a Valentine’s Day gift that guys could give to their “special someone”.  And when I say huge, I mean it was about the same size as the guy carrying it. Seeing the two of them squeeze through the door evoked visions of the “Three Stooges” all trying to get through a doorway at the same time. Some of you may remember that, right?

Gallantry on Display ~
Eventually, the guy got through the door, but he didn’t simply hand the bear over to the woman waiting inside. He presented it as though she was his Guinevere and he was Sir Lancelot just returning from an epic battle wherein he had courageously defended her virtue and saved the kingdom by defeating thebear.9 evil black knight. It was not enough that her perfumed hankie had been flying from that little pointy thing on top of his helmet. He was about to add even more. For his exemplary heroism, he had been awarded the coveted “Love Bear”. Now, as his supreme gesture of eternal devotion, he was offering it to her. Ahh… What more could possibly be said or done to exemplify and validate such undying love?

Guinevere’s eyes widened, ostensibly to exhibit excitement mingled with shock, incredulity, and passionate gratitude. Suddenly it didn’t matter that Sir Lancelot was normally an insensitive clod who couldn’t remember to wipe his feet or put his dirty clothes in the laundry hamper. The important thing was that he had finally managed to dream up something as romantic and stimulating as having a dust bunny on steroids for her very own. 

Inciting a Different Kind of Passion ~
I sat there imagining Diane’s response if I came home dragging a thing like that. She would be passionate, no doubt, but not in the way guys tend to fantasize about. It would be more akin to how she’d react if I came through the door announcing that God was leading me to breed possums and promote them as trendy new service animals. For her, a giant Love Bear would be just slightly less ridiculous.

On the positive side, maybe Lady Guinevere was excited because she was thinking about taking the love bear to bed with her and forcing Sir Lancelot to go sleep somewhere else so she could get some decent rest. Hmmm… I think I’m beginning to see the appeal now. After all, stuffed bears don’t snore, they don’t make other unintelligible noises in the night, they don’t thrash around like an outnumbered Ninja fighting for his life, and they don’t have morning breath that could peel varnish off antique furniture. 

Okay, I concede that there probably aren’t a lot of doctrinal issues wrapped up in the trafficking of stuffed animals. But a commercial like that does give us a glimpse of the kinds of bizarre and unusual things we humans do, especially around Valentine’s Day, in an effort to say, “I love you.” Our tendencies in that direction warrant indulging in a simple, but relevant, spiritual observation or two.

Something Is Missing ~
All of us are aware that violence and division are engulfing our nation and the world. The news has become a daily, living proclamation that something vital and irreplaceable is missing. The missing element, in my opinion, is Love – as God defines it. That one concept is possibly the most God-likebear.3 capacity we were ever equipped with. Love is the most powerful driving force we were ever given, and we are suffering under the impact of the destructive forces that haunt the emotional and spiritual desert left in the wake of its departure. 

Love lives in conjunction with other positive capacities, like faith, trust, and hope. Life’s greatest experiences flow out of it. Joy, peace, fulfillment, and optimism attend it, and when love flourishes, it keeps destructive things at bay. Things like fear, anxiety, unprovoked anger, and irrational hatred cannot cohabitate with it. The kind of love that Jesus displayed brings out the best in us. It demands truth, creates compassion, extends forgiveness, practices generosity, and facilitates unity. Perhaps the most powerful element of all is love’s willingness to endure personal sacrifice for the benefit of the one loved. Paul declared that the intent of the Law of God and the core message of the prophets are included within that one concept. Loving God and loving one another encapsulates it all. (Romans 13:8-10

Considering a Different Perspective ~
Perhaps what we should be most concerned about is not our Valentine’s Day love gifts, but how we express the love we claim to have for the One who loved us first and proved it by giving all He had, including His life. Are our religious rituals really what He’s hoping to receive from us? Are they all Hebear.4 deserves to receive from us? There were times when God said to His people that He was sick of their rituals and sacrifices, and of their long, disingenuous prayers. Luke records an expression of love that will be remembered for eternity, and there are some points worth considering as we think about love this Valentine’s Day. 

Then one of the Pharisees asked Him to eat with him. And He went to the Pharisee’s house, and sat down to eat. And behold, a woman in the city who was a sinner, when she knew that Jesus sat at the table in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster flask of fragrant oil, and stood at His feet behind Him weeping; and she began to wash His feet with her tears, and wiped them with the hair of her head; and she kissed His feet and anointed them with the fragrant oil. Now when the Pharisee who had invited Him saw this, he spoke to himself, saying, “This Man, if He were a prophet, would know who and what manner of woman this is who is touching Him, for she is a sinner.” (Luke 7:36–39 NKJV)

Enduring Lessons ~
The nameless woman who made her way to Jesus that day had already come to love all she knew about this incredible man who had come to bring forgiveness and healing into their world. She brought nothing but an alabaster box of fragrant oil and a heart broken with sin, but clinging to hope that those sins could be forgiven. She didn’t say a word, but the eloquence of what she did has stirred lives for over 2,000 years. It’s not that she was capable of love that’s more special or powerful than yours or mine. It’s how she expressed it that lives on.

    • This was not a place where she would be welcomed. Just being there demanded boldness.
    • Her love was a private thing, but she was willing to make it public.  
    • She didn’t have much, but her love made her willing to give all she had. 
    • Her love was deeply personal, and so was her contact with Jesus.  
    • Her love was  displayed in a way that neither Jesus nor His critics could miss it. 

What she felt during and after those moments with Him are forever hers, but one thing is pretty clear. Both had come to say to the other, See how much I love you? She did that for Him by pouring out the fragrant contents of a broken vial on His head and washing His feet. He did it by pouring out His blood on a cross and washing her clean from every sin she’d ever committed. 

Stuffed bears, candy, and flowers are okay, but what America is desperate for is love like that woman brought to Jesus. Our prayer is that all of us will help revive that kind of selfless love this Valentine’s Day.

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4 Responses to Valentine’s Day ~ Time for a Love Revival

  1. JD Wininger says:

    How did you know about my Possum Service Animal (Arnold). I almost had American Airlines convinced he was an emotional support animal, but then he hissed fiercely and bared his teeth at the TSA officer. Oh well, Arnold was a good possum. Now, as to the meat of your post brother. If only, we truly understood and acted upon what God’s agape love does. It isn’t merely enough to put on our “Sunday Smile” and act loving towards those who dress, act, and meet at the same gathering place we do once a week, God’s love (when applied to our soul) changes us. I think sometimes of the communal life the early (1st century) Christians shared. Not like that of some on the 60s, where they say around with long hair, love beads, and granny classes, talking about how “groovy” everything was or how they could take trips without ever leaving the farm, but where they did life together, loving and sharing with one another for love’s sake. They didn’t sit around and attempt to show how much more they loved God than the others, they embraced each other with God’s love and gave all they had to one another to show God’s influence in their lives. Oh, to be more like that. To love for love’s sake; remembering that God is love. Yet another great post my friend. Thank you for framing how we should live and love every day of the year.

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    • Diane was laughing out loud before I ever got to this, J.D. “Arnold” may be gone, but he brightened our day anyway. As always your comment about needing to do more than put on our Sunday Smile is dead on target. What seems to be the case all too often is that our smiling faces seem to fade in the hateful, antagonistic digital world that you’re escaping from for a while. The counterfeits and knock off substitutes for love that get passed around these days are like an emotional and spiritual hologram–look good but there’s no substance and no power in them. Today’s “love” is like a trip to the spa–feels good for a while, but no lasting benefit. God’s love is the kind that makes a commitment and then rolls up its sleeves and goes to work. It’s like what you do at the ranch you love. You don’t just enjoy looking at those who trust you and depend on you and then go your way in search of something else to feed your senses. You and Bubba head climb aboard the UTV and demonstrate what love’s really all about. Come to think of it, looks like you’re the most active “service animal” to be found around the Cross-Dubya. God bless you for blessing our day–again.

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  2. A love like this woman had for Jesus is precisely what we need this Valentine’s Day, and always, Ron. May we all sift through the “stuff” of this holiday to find the true meaning of loving God and one another.

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    • Wouldn’t it be great to see a ground swell of the kind of attitudes and behaviors that permeated the early Church? I think there’s a growing sense of fatigue from the threat of instantaneous condemnation if we say something that some self-appointed arbiter of which beliefs and opinions are acceptable. I’ve never attempted to walk a carnival tight rope physically, and am not going to attempt it verbally, either. God bless you for another encouraging, insightful reaction, Martha, and may your Valentine’s Day be full of the kind of love we both cherish.

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