A Legacy in the Leftovers

Today’s edition will be a little different. It’s not unusual for most people, especially Christians, to look for meaning when challenging events happen to them. We want to come away with some potentially positive outcome to the painful experiences we endure, and that’s a good thing. After all, God did include the book of Job, and all kinds of trials that took place in a variety of wilderness settings over the years. He didn’t do that to depress us. He allowed those experiences and then wrote about them in order to instruct and prepare us. Paul expressed the idea concisely when he said:

For whatever things were written before were written for our learning, that we through the patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope. (Romans 15:3–4 NKJV) 

We understand lessons offered in negative experiences, and a lot of us tend to consider our trials to be courses in learning to be patient when our world is falling apart. When we’ve been through a spiritual test, we look for the takeaways that God intended for us to glean. That’s a natural reaction in the aftermath of tough days, but what about those days that are just the opposite? 

Another Side to the Coin ~
Good things happen, too, and there are lessons to be learned in those times as well. Sometimes, a refreshing oasis unexpectedly appears in the midst of a wilderness we’re trudging through. Sometimes when we feel depleted and weak, nourishing “manna fromquilt.1 heaven” appears out of nowhere. Multitudes thirsting for hope in barren places with no hint of moisture have watched their dire expectations vanish as water gushes out of dry, flinty rock. He isn’t just the God who walks with us through the bad times. He’s the God who sometimes invades those bad times with good things we never expected, and there are valuable lessons to be learned there as well. 

I was reminded of that again on a very personal level earlier this week and felt compelled to share it. It began with an announcement from my daughter who lives in Ohio that she was sending me a gift. It would arrive in a couple of days or so, but I was not to open it until we could connect on Facetime. The only motivation she revealed was that she knew I’d been having some tough days physically, and she wanted to send me a little something to brighten my day. 

Mystery Solved ~
After some focused pondering about what it could be, I concluded it had to be something about dogs. Since she has several and we have none, she teases me about my canine relationship deficiencies. “Ahah!” I thought, “She’s sending me some kind of toy dog.” quilt.2Convinced that a mechanical or stuffed dog was heading my way, I considered the mystery solved and hardly noticed the passing of time until the notice came that my artificial “pooch” was finally resting on the front porch. 

When all of us were online and able to see and hear each other clearly, we set out to open the box. Let me say up front that it was not a stuffed dog, but before continuing, I need to turn some pages to reach back in my life and provide some background. 

My grandparents were more like my parents in my early years, and I have treasured that relationship throughout my life. My grandmother, “Ma,” as we called her, was one of the hardest working people I’ve ever known. The little family farm where we lived in those days had electricity but no running water unless you ran out to the well to get it. We had a refrigerator that would look tiny by today’s standards, and a wood burning cook stove was all she had to prepare meals on. Ma worked from before daybreak in the morning until well into the night and had no days “off”. She was a living demonstration of what faith, perseverance, ingenuity, and dedication meant. She transitioned effortlessly from a parent to a farm laborer to a skilled craftsman to a household manager. She produced a lot in her life, but didn’t leave a lot of material possessions behind when God called her home. 

An Unexpected Discovery ~
One of my favorite cousins, who is also one of her granddaughters, came to visit last summer and during that trip, she revealed a recent discovery. She had come across some worn and fragile pieces of cloth that our grandmother had cut out and sewn together as thequilt.3 first stages of making a quilt. Another family member had found them and offered them to my cousin because of her interest in quilting. She had been able to use some of the pieces in creating a project or two, but was struggling with what she should do with the remaining pieces. When I heard that, I had a suggestion. 

Unknown to my cousin at the time, my daughter had also developed a love for quilting and had proven to be quite creative and prolific in producing quilted items. I suggested that they connect and collaborate about the possibilities. Eventually, they decided that my daughter would be the one to try to do something with Ma’s leftovers. The pieces were old and fragile and the shapes she had sewn together didn’t suggest any obvious way to apply them. Everyone agreed that the pieces were special, but inspiration about what to do with them was hard to find. It became apparent that if anything ever materialized, it would probably be a long time coming. But for me, the fact that these little scraps of my grandmother’s life had survived was a special blessing even if nothing was ever done with them. (So you probably know by now where this is going, right?)

The Gift Arrives (not a Toy Dog!) ~
Going back to our story . . . We opened the box that had arrived and slowly pulled the contents out. As some of the colors emerged, I recognized those quilt pieces that Ma had sewn. They were no longer a random bunch of scraps. They adorned what was for me more than a quilt. It had become a breathtaking piece of historical art–a beautiful collection of life’s insignificant leftovers, stitched together to form a priceless legacy of love.

My throat tightened as I looked at the hand-stitching Ma had done with her arthritic little hands. We unfolded the large, throw-sized quilt, and when I saw what those scraps had been transformed into, I was speechless. In that moment, all the frustration, disappointment, and pain that I had been fighting for days instantly melted away. I was holding in my hands something at least partially created by hands that had cared for my wounds, smacked my legs when I challenged her, and then wiped away my tears. Those hands that taught me how quilt.4to milk a cow, string beans, and dig potatoes had pulled those threads through that fabric. Hands that did that delicate work with needles and thread also showed me how to feed the chickens, gather eggs, and slop the hogs. A few minutes of holding that quilt and thinking about the life she lived and the values she demonstrated did something incredible. It unleashed memories of so many good things she did. There was enough good still lingering in the leftovers of her life to wipe out uncounted hours of bad thoughts, anxiety, fear, and negative expectations. It reminded me of a simple but profoundly powerful admonition God delivered by the Apostle Paul. He said:

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (Romans 12:21 NKJV)

Living Definitions Required ~
The good that overcomes evil is not just a term defined by what we say. Good is not a church we belong to, a position we hold, or a party we agree with. Good comes to life in faithful obedience to the Word of God. Good gains its strength in the sacrifices we make to help others. My grandma’s life was hard, but it was deeply and powerfully good. She spent her life doing things for those in need, feeding the hungry, bandaging the wounded, lifting up the fallen, and teaching the uninformed. She may not have realized it, but she waged a war against evil all her life. 

As I held the remnants of Ma’s life in the quilt she never got to finish . . . the one that three generations later, my own daughter’s heart was moved to complete, I could feel the power of the good she scattered everywhere she went. May God help us to remember that the good we do lives on. The lives it touches multiply even after we’re gone, and evil will always die in its presence.

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(The floral blooms were my grandmother’s hand-stitched work. The creative design supporting and surrounding them to pull it all together into this legacy piece was done by my daughter, Katie.)


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14 Responses to A Legacy in the Leftovers

  1. There’s not just history in quilting but magic of the heart. Thank you.

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    • You are so very right, and I love that “magic of the heart” description you shared. Obviously, I was a recipient of that “magic” but wouldn’t have thought to describe it that way. Thank you so much for the blessing that your insightful and encouraging response brought with it.

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  2. Cat Brennan says:

    Ron, this post truly blessed me. I thoroughly enjoyed it, so thank you for sharing your heart. At first, the title made me wonder if it were about food (leftovers)!
    I have a simple, 9-patch wall hanging that is special to me. My Great Grandmother, Olive Catherine Stout West, after whom I was named (Catherine West Arnold) stitched the 9 patches together, 2 of which are pieced themselves) in planning for a quilt, I believe. Many of these squares were left behind at her death and somehow they came into my sister’s possession. My sister, June, “finished” one for me for one of my birthdays with 3 rounds of sashing framing the 9-patch, and then bound it. It’s a real jewel to me. I never knew this Great Grandmother, but I have an important piece of heritage because of her diligence.

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    • What a blessing it is to hear from you, Cat! I am so grateful, not only that you took the time to read the post, but that you responded in such a gracious and encouraging way. I can obviously relate to how special those patches you have from your Great Grandmother, and especially the way they were preserved by your sister. Sacrificial expressions of love like that are treasures money can’t buy. God bless you for continuing to use your gifts to inspire and motivate others to keep the Light shining in this increasingly challenging world.

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  3. Kymberly Mister says:

    What a Beautiful legacy of love ❤️. What a precious gift passed down in love, sewn in love and woven together through generations. God is Always Amazing us❣️ Loved reading this today. Praying for your strength and health. Now you will not only be covered in prayer, you are covered in love. 🪡 🧵 ❤️

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    • God bless you, Kimberly. You will never know how encouraging it is to hear from you and to see your response. It really was a priceless and unforgettable moment, and a day whose blessing will linger. Your gracious and touching reaction is part of what will prolong the deeply moving impact that receiving Katie’s creation had on us. Thank you for the prayers, and ours join them for you and the rest of the family. We’re hoping that we’ll be able to get back to VA before too long and that we’ll be able to see you guys again. Meanwhile, may God strengthen and multiply your work on His behalf.

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