Leaving His Mark Upon My Life ~ Guest Post

When I come across something that I find to be good, helpful, encouraging, or strengthening, I love to pass it along and encourage others to try it, too. I do that with everything from food to tools, but the greatest joy comes from introducing others to people who consistently make the world around them feel like a better place. J.D. Wininger is one of those people. He’s a uniquely gifted writer, speaker, and friend who God has sent us for such a time as this. He’s a spiritual warrior disguised as a humble Texas rancher who loves God, his family, his country, and his freedom. J.D. spends most of his day doing the hard work of running a ranch called “The Cross-Dubya” and listening to the Spirit of God in the process. The rest of his time is devoted to sharing  eternal truths from the Word of God that the Lord reveals to him in the course of life around the “Cross-Dubya”.  

Whether reading his posts or listening to his comments about them on PJNet TV on Thursday evenings, J.D. has a way of making others feel like they’re old friends. We at Gallagher’s Pen are pleased to introduce you to J.D.’s writing today and invite you to check out his blog and other writings at www.JDWininger.com. Then add to the joy by passing the source of the blessing along to someone else . . . 

Three letters, S-E-A. Who could ever imagine the magnitude of the legacy they would leave behind? When did I first see those initials? That’s right, it was when I was helping mom reconcile the Napa Auto Parts charge tickets at our family’s Texaco station. Asking who signed for those parts, mom replied, “That’s Dad’s signature boy. Don’t you even know his name?” I knew folks called him Stewart, Stu, or Mr. Adams, but his initials were new to me. I wondered what the “E” stood for.  

My dad used his initials to sign everything. Checks, charge tickets, and fuel invoices. Some months later—when watching him pay shop bills one evening—I noticed he used an embossing stamp that lived on his desk on every check he wrote. The large brass stamp had a lever that majestically pointed skyward above his desk. Its polished surface looked so impressive to a poor kid who had never even seen a desk outside of the schoolhouse before. I asked him once why he embossed every check.

His response was profound to a 15-year-old. My dad took a sheet of paper and placed it between the jaws of his fancy desk tool. Then he lowered the lever, returned it to its upright position, and withdrew the paper. Dad invited me to run my fingers over the embossed seal. Pretty impressive, I thought; it’s like it becomes official or something. As I looked at him, he explained. “That seal is my mark. There’s not another one like it, it’s mine and mine alone. It’s my guarantee that I will stand behind every document bearing that seal.”

He explained how he viewed that stamp as a sign of his integrity, honor, and faithfulness. “I want my name to mean something,” he said. “When I emboss each check, I guarantee that I will stand behind it. It is my promise to stand good on everything I do.” I didn’t realize it back then, but I had received my first lesson in what it meant to Ride for the Brand. Words like honor and integrity weren’t mere words to my dad. He taught me their value by the way he lived them out in his life.

I think back over the decades of my life and I can remember how business people would greet me, even long after I had left working at dad’s garage. They would ask, “You’re one of Mr. Adams’ boys, aren’t you?” With my affirmation, there was nothing more that needed to be said. His name was all the collateral I needed for store credit, bank loans, and help of any kind.

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After dad’s entry into Heaven’s glory, my sister Sue asked me what I wanted of my dad’s possessions. I shared he had long ago gave me his vintage 1940s armature lathe and how I display it in the farm office in the workshop. I added that rather than the Model T or anything of value, the item with greatest value to me was his brass embossing tool that sat on his desk.

With no markings to show date of manufacture, my Dad’s embossing stamp could be as old as I am. I noticed when he lived with us here in Texas that the upper portion didn’t make as good an impression as it did years ago. Another example of how my dad impacted my life appeared as I applied the problem-solving techniques he taught me as a young man. The summary of this technique—of which I’ve benefitted from my entire adult life—consists of examining the issue, understanding the root cause, and then applying a corrective action.

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Like his life itself, the old stamp showed the visible signs of a lifetime of faithful service. Its once-perfect finish now tarnished and worn; and it doesn’t work as well as it used to. In noticing how my dad’s embossing stamp had been well-used and worn down through its life, I considered how the same thing happens in our lives. Our levers are depressed and pressure applied from all sides many times (2 Corinthians 4:8-10). When we are in Christ, however, the more we allow God to use us, the more valuable we become in His kingdom.

Theorizing that the lever and piston shaft were worn down through the many decades of use, I placed a penny between the upper plate and the piston. To prove my theory, I stamped a Post-It note. The entire image was once again crisp and clear. We solved another problem together Dad. Thank you again for your many gifts.

As my days of celebratory grieving for my dear friend, confidant, and mentor continue, I pray God fills them with precious memories of the lessons he shared. I hope many of you who have lost parents, grandparents, and other loved ones who enriched your lives will reflect upon the marks they left upon you. Also, I pray you will consider the mark God has left on your life in Christ. If you can’t see it clearly, then dear friend, it might not be there. Jesus Christ can remedy that with just one heartfelt request.

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If not, then you can solve it using my Father’s problem-solving technique.

  • Examine the issue: Lack of salvation.
  • Identify the root cause: The sin curse upon mankind.
  • Apply the corrective action: Surrender your life to God’s matchless grace, available only through Christ’s salvation.

God’s blessings,

J.D. Wininger

Guest.2J.D. Wininger is an award-winning business writer and speaker who has authored hundreds of books and manuals, and thousands of contract-winning proposals by applying his God-given talents for writing and communicating throughout his career. He has written dozens of articles for national magazines, CBN.com, and contributed to several books during his career. Since retiring in 2011 to become a gentleman farmer and rancher in northeast Texas, J.D. applies his spiritual gifts and talents to teach compelling lessons in faith, write heartfelt devotionals, and author nonfiction works in pursuit of increasing discipleship in Jesus Christ. A semi-retired consultant and copywriter, He and his wife Diane spend much of their time sharing God’s love through service in nearby communities. When not tending his cattle, Magic the donkey, Bubba the chocolate lab, an ever-growing number of barn cats, or doing chores, J.D. enjoys spending time researching, discovering, and glorifying his Lord.

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Please join me each Thursday evening at 9:30 Eastern as host Coach Mark Prasek and I take a trip Around the Cross-Dubya on PJNET TV. We discuss this week’s blog post, offer insight about the lessons learned, and enjoy the fellowship of friends in the live chat room.

Please join me each Thursday evening at 9:30 Eastern as host Coach Mark Prasek and I take a trip Around the Cross-Dubya on PJNET TV. We discuss this week’s blog post, offer insight about the lessons learned, and enjoy the fellowship of friends in the live chat room.


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15 Responses to Leaving His Mark Upon My Life ~ Guest Post

  1. Katherine Pasour says:

    So good to see our friend, J.D. on your site, Ron. Often, we don’t discover the legacy left by our parents and loved ones until they have passed, but you were blessed with a father that lived out his legacy on a daily basis. Thank you for sharing this inspiring message with a reminder for all of us–the life others see us live is the one we will be remembered by. May God continue to bless you both.

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    • Thank you, Katherine–and forgive me for being slow responding. We’ve been traveling and “off the grid” for a few days. I may not know you at all if it weren’t for our mutual friend, and that’s another reason why I appreciate him so much. He’s left a mark of sorts on our own hearts, hasn’t he? But mainly, both of us share the same Father’s imprint on our own hearts. God bless you for the ministry you faithfully and courageously conduct in these dark days.


  2. What an awesome story! I love how that pictures transform into God placing His seal upon us. Thank you for sharing, Ron and J.D.


    • J.D. and i are both grateful and blessed for your gracious and encouraging response, Barbara. Forgive me for being slow getting back to you. We’ve been traveling for a few days and “off the grid”–challenging in some ways, but good to do once in a while, I think. God bless you for checking in–you’re now an official part of my “friends of J.D.’s friends” club.


    • JD Wininger says:

      Thank you for reading and commenting Ms. Barbara. Am glad you enjoyed ma’am.


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